• If you are concerned that your child is having thoughts about self-harm or harming others, don’t hesitate to ask questions.  Asking if someone is suicidal does not lead to suicidal thoughts. The following hospitals/facilities can help in the event that your child is having suicidal or homicidal thoughts. Knowing what to expect can be scary and confusing; here is a guide on what to expect in the event your child needs to be hospitalized for your child's safety or the safety of others.